Re: when its to wet?
Yes, I echo the preceding. Wetness is wonderful! It
means that she is responsive, able to surrender to the
pleasure of the moment, not tied in knots from unconscious
fear or anger. Good, good, good!
Lucky you!
I note you
report that she says it’s toooo wet down there. Who
raised the point first? Do you agree when you are down
"there"? I dunno, so I guess/suspect that she is the
one who unreasonably fears every possibility of anything
about her body being abnormal and men making her feel
bad or rejecting her over it. I suspect she learned that
mistake as a little girl from her mother, sisters, peer girl
friends, etc.
If so, then she needs your persistent,
confident reassurance more than any other remedy. Tell her
that most guys--you in particular--don't care about minor
flaws in a woman's body. The good stuff all over her body is
wow much too good to pay attention to the dust
speck--and this is not even a speck but a red rose. Tell her
to pay less attention--if any--to what women say and fear
men like and don't like about women and women's bodies and
more attention to what men say and how men act (plural, not
just one). Tell her to please work on relabeling her
attitudes toward her body and fears and keep doing it day
after day, year after year.
As for "She was losing
feeling...", remember, the vaginal interior is always less
sensistive than the penile exterior. But, if you and she
could research Kagel-muscle exercises, she could learn to
tense her muscles voluntarily to grip your penis more when
she wants to. That should increase the friction and both
your sensations. At least, that is my guess. As the great
Aphrodite herself would say, I'm no physician, and I don't
know a quarter as much as she does.
Me in Los Angeles
